Regaining Balance Following the Loss of a Great Romance

Though I’ve written substantively about the passing of my wife, grieving while both partners are still living can be an equal challenge.

Joel Eisenberg

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The final words of the above subtitle were phrased with particular care. Specifically, “… can be an equal challenge.”

Can be being the term to which I want to call attention, as I do not in any way want to discount the loss of a romance caused by the death of a partner.

A difficult truth, though, remains: On my assumption the majority of you have experienced a breakup at least once in your lives, regardless of tenor, it can certainly feel as though your world has come to an end.

And that often causes the end of a heartfelt romance to very much feel like a death.

Extreme grief, and loss of a sense of self, frequently commences.

I was 21 when burdened with my first breakup. It happened during my last year in college, and though amicable and triggered by a wholly legitimate reason I was heartbroken. It took me 16 years before I met my wife to effectively recover. In recent months — some 40 years following my college breakup and in a turn of events that could best be considered remarkable — that same…

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Joel Eisenberg

Joel Eisenberg is an award-winning author, screenwriter, and producer. The Oscar in the profile pic isn’t his but he’s scheming. WGA and Pen America member.